Welcome to Lavender Unions

Where you are marrying your best friend, splitting rent, doing chores, and living in a harmoniously loving union.

Built for Meaningful Unions

A private space for platonic, companionate partnerships.

Intentional Process

A guided path to finding a compatible partner.

Real, Lasting Connections

Partnerships built on trust and shared purpose.

About Us

At Lavender Unions, we are dedicated to empowering women through resources, mentorship, and advocacy. Our community-based initiatives focus on skills training and legal aid to support women in reaching their full potential.

How It Works

Intentional Connection in Three Steps

Tell Us About You

 Complete a thoughtful intake form to share your goals and values.

Get Approved & Explore

Access our member directory, blog, events and be of part of our community

Connect & Grow

Join our private community, attend workshops, and build your union

Our Mission

A Sanctuary for Love, Respect, and Unity

Lavender Unions is a private space for gay men and lesbian women seeking platonic, companionate partnerships. We believe in authentic connection, mutual support, and building lives together — beyond romance.

TIER 1

Free

$0

  • ✓ Create profile
  • ✓ Browse directory (limited)
  • ✓ View member profiles
  • ✓ Access blog
  • ✗ Messaging
  • ✗ Groups, events
  • ✗ Match filters

TIER 2

Mid

$9.99/mo

  • ✓ Everything in Free
  • ✓ Private messaging
  • ✓ Join groups
  • ✓ Events & workshops
  • ✓ Advanced match filters
  • ✓ Ad-free experience
  • ✗ Who viewed profile
  • ✗ Priority placement
  • ✗ Premium badge

TIER 3

Premium

$19.99/mo

  • ✓ Everything in Mid
  • ✓ See who viewed profile
  • ✓ Priority placement
  • ✓ Premium badge

Why Choose Lavender Unions

Success Stories

Real Stories. Real Bonds.

Our members are building lives together — with trust, clarity, and purpose. Here’s what they’re saying:

John S

John S.

Lavender Unions has changed my life. Perfect partnership for mutual support
Danielle R.

Danielle R.

Lavender Unions connected me with someone who truly understands and supports me. I couldn’t be happier.
Mellisa A.

Mellisa A.

Lavender Unions made finding a supportive partner so easy and fulfilling!